Remembering to Stop
As a member of the modern workforce, I find myself driven by this almost carnal urge to handle problems, fit things in, and take on extra responsibilities. These are the values that were espoused to me as the keys to success. Do More! Be Better! Act Faster!
For me, it’s quite hard to turn off this way of life. In fact, I’ve found it much easier just to brand it and turn it into the de facto way of living. “I live an edge-to-edge lifestyle” or “I’m hellza busy this week” or “I have something going on.”
And truth to be told, I often find positive reinforcement and gratification from this lifestyle. “Life is so much more boring when you’re not around to plan stuff” or “way to live it up” or “you always know what’s happening in town.” And so it goes.
Honestly, it’s no surprise that when it came time to do the quick and simple planning for my Europe trip, I found myself saying: “Well, I’m going to pubquiz on Thursday night, I’m headed to the Cotswolds on Friday, back Saturday, out to Geneva on Sunday, and back Tuesday morning before flying back to Beijing on Tuesday night. Hmm, well, I fly in at noon into Heathrow on Wednesday, how about 6p under the clock at Waterloo station?” Actual conversation.
So here am I am, writing this on my flight to Geneva, and wondering, wait a minute, where’s the relaxation and slowing down part of this holiday? I’ve been in a GO MODE before I even landed, calculating when and how long I should sleep for to minimize my jetlag and maximize my schedule. I’ve had multiple instances of dashing home to change and drop off stuff just to dash out again to make a meet up.
It’s not sustainable. One cannot continually exhale in life and dash from one thing to another. It’s almost guaranteed that a wall is lurking somewhere in the future. Therefore, I’ve decided to extend my trip by a couple days, leaving on Thursday instead of Tuesday. I won’t have to dash back after flying back into London from Geneva just to dash back out to the airport to fly back to Beijing. And I plan on taking the time to just sit, have a good espresso from Fernandez & Wells, people watch, and read.












